My friend Natalie recently posted on Facebook about a service called Stitch Fix where a stylist would select clothes, suited JUST for you, and mail them to your doorstep.
Wha??? What is this anomaly of heaven that I have just been shown? And how could this change my life forever? I was just getting ready to beg for a friend or two to go out and do some shopping for me. I need to dress up more (meaning change out of my yoga pants) when sharing about Young Living essential oils.
Let me give you some history: I loathe shopping for clothes. (With my children in tow.) There. I said it. It's in parenthesis so that makes it not so bad, right? Who LOVES shopping with their two small children?? No one. Exactly. When I'm in the dressing room, mine always talk LOUDLY about my boobs/bra and try to crawl underneath the dividers and make friends. Every time, guaranteed.
This Stitch Fix service means I don't have to leave my home, try on clothing with awful lighting highlighting every dimple all while I play goalie while my children try to headbutt me to get out of the dressing room. I was ready to sign up. Right then and there.
OK, maybe I didn't sign up that quickly, but I was genuinely curious! I followed my friend's referral link to Stitch Fix, and read the FAQ. A $20 stylist fee would be charged, but you'd get it back if you bought anything in your Fix. If you keep your whole Fix, you'd get 25% off the total. Once your Fix arrives, you have three business days to make your decision. Whatever you don't want goes back in a pre-paid envelope. This sounded like a program I would love!
I filled out my profile, so my stylist could see what I would like. I went through my size, my preferences, rated photos of outfits to my liking and gave specific instructions to my stylist.
My specific instructions were something along these lines:
- I'm not into accessories - I can buy those cheaper elsewhere.
- No skirts/dresses. My closet overfloweth with ankle-length hippie skirts and I hate shaving. And it's cold outside all the time.
- Long or 3/4 sleeve tops required. I live in MN so nine months out of the year I wear long sleeve shirts.
- I need all clothing to be nursing-friendly.
- I'm cheap, so please be economical with my Fix. In the last year, I spent more than $20 on one item only: my drug rug sweater that I wear everyday.
- I teach classes on essential oils and I'm a birth doula. Are you getting my laid-back, hippie vibe yet?? I'm a simple gal. PLEASE don't send me a pencil skirt with a ruffled, patterned blouse!
I waited patiently until I saw IT had arrived at my doorstep on a snowy, Thursday, APRIL afternoon!
I got home from work and saw a cute, little box sitting in my doorway. I shuffled my kids out of their car seats and into the house and without even taking off my wet, snowy shoes I was ripping open that box! I was greeted instantly by a photo that made my heart sink a little bit:
I'm not into patterned shirts; they make me nervous. Ew. However, as I unfolded my style guide, I was a little more at peace.
These little fashion cards are like gold to the fashion-challenged! I would never pair some of these items together, because I'm a jeans and a plain, ol' shirt type of gal. Or, on a fancy day, a hippie skirt with a plain shirt.
I even got a little note from my stylist, Lana, whom I picture to be petite, with chunky glasses and dark hair. She also works behind her Macbook Pro like an overachieving champ. (Lana, if you ever read this, I'm sorry if 1. You are really a man and 2. You are the opposite of what I describe. Please continue to send me amazing clothes.)
|Aww, thanks, Lana! I feel like we could be BFFs if we just got to know each other a little more!|
The photos of the Stitch Fix items just didn't do the five items in my box any justice because once I opened that box, I was in love!!
Item #1: Renee C Malcolm Heathered Dolman Sleeve Knit Shirt $48
I knew instantly this shirt was a winner because slouched style works well with me. And heather grey in color? Mmm, Lana, you know my favorite color is sweatpants! The shirt was a wee bit tight in my arms, which is weird because my arms are fairly thin. Overall, it was very slimming! The shirt was wrinkle-proof, but lost a point in easy-mom-ness because it's LAY FLAT TO DRY. Who does that? Apparently, I've moved up in the world because I now have clothing that says LAY FLAT TO DRY.
VERDICT: YES. $48 is more than what I would ever pay for a shirt. Even if it was woven out of the hair of a magical unicorn. However, this shirt is cute, can be paired with two of the other items in my Fix AND I had some discounts (more on that later).
Item #2: Kensie Jeans Malin Bootcut Jean $98
Jeans make me more anxious than patterned shirts. WHO can understand my booty and it's spunk compared to the rest of my body?? I'm also going to come right out and say these were $98, which made me almost not try them on. Obviously, I couldn't leave beautiful, new jeans to sit in a box and the pictures below show I did try them on and I did really enjoy them! (Please, have grace on my curvy backside - these are hard photos to post!)
Item #3: 41Hawthorn Longsleeve Knit Cardigan in Navy $48
I don't DO navy. It's waaaaayyyyyy to much of a commitment because then I have to think beyond my black boots or faux UGGS. That means more shoes and boots and I just can't go down that road. When I saw this cardigan, I was intrigued because it HAS NO BUTTONS!!! It has lost its library-lady likeness and can be casual or dressed up and super cool! Every other cardigan I've tried on (OK, so only Target brands) have had awkward buttons and they aren't long enough on me. When looking for items that land at my upper thigh length, I sometimes have to get larger sizes, which looks bulky and awkward. This cardigan also matches EVERY item in my Fix!!! Lana, now you're talking my practical, let-me-brew-you-some-fair-trade-tea language.
VERDICT: YES. Do I even need to answer that question?
Item #4: Caramela Mallorie Geo Print Tie-Neck Blouse $28
Lana really went out on a limb here, including this patterned blouse. Blouses are for old ladies. But, this
VERDICT: YES. I'm not sure I would've kept this shirt, had it not been for the discounts I had. Even though it is charming, I was reaching my budget limit with the first three items.
Item #5: Fun2Fun Hanna Plaid Tab-Sleeve Henley Top $48
When I saw this shirt in the box, I loved it instantly! It was smooth feeling and the bright colors were calling my name after a long winter. But, with my long torso, it was a little short on the sides, which was very disappointing. It came super wrinkly, but I've since ironed it and it was fine after that. It is adorable on and I love the adjustable sleeve length!
VERDICT: YES. I don't think I would have kept this shirt if it wasn't for the discounts I got because of the shortness on the sides. I'm way over the days of showing any part of my midriff. While I always were a tank top under my shirts, it'd be nice to have a shirt or two that was long enough on me.
The GOOD and the BAD and my relationship status with Stitch Fix:
- In the weirdest way, Lana GOT me. She kept things simple and Midwestern and avoided the corporate America or high fashion look.
- My wishes for longer-sleeved shirts, nursing-friendly tops and avoiding accessories were met!
- I got several referral credits from friends that signed up as well AND I got 25% off my total for buying all five items.
- I tried clothes I never would have and they actually looked good on me!
- Very easy process - I even changed something in my profile a couple days before my Fix was to ship with no issues
- It was hard for me to spend that much money on clothes for myself.
- Several shirts were LAY FLAT TO DRY or hang to dry. Ain't nobody got time for that!
- I cannot see who used my referral code!!! I would really love to send them a thank you!
I am most definitely keeping my relationship with Stitch Fix and Lana! My total for all five items came to $107.50, after discounts (referrals and 25% off discount for buying them all) which is a little over $20 per item. I know, that's pretty good, but I needed convincing! We live in a small town and driving to a nearby town that's an hour away would easily cost over $60 in gas and eating out. Plus the cost of whatever clothes I bought AND the cost of all the Stress Away essential oil I'd have to use on me to combat the stress of shopping with my precious children and husband. I plan on getting at least one more Fix soon with a focus on half of the items being more suited for summer!
Next time around, I'm asking Lana to make these considerations:
- No weird washing/drying instructions
- Mind my long torso
- Stay thrifty
- Keep rockin' it!
If you're interested in getting your own Fix, you are more than welcome to use my referral code! ;) I highly recommend the process but I also recommend being VERY specific in your needs and wants as you go through your profile.Let me know if YOU try Stitch Fix and what your thoughts are!
PS: Yes, I get a discount if you sign up for Stitch Fix with my referral code, but I have given you my 100% honest opinion. I'm doing this again, whether or not I get any discount (although a discount sure does make it nicer). These same opinions will be sent to my darling and soon to be BFF, Lana, so she knows completely how I feel and how to best suit me next time around!